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By Dhyan Vimal

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Is your Life in Order?
By Dhyan Vimal

Posted by on 17 August, 2008

Order is when the way you are; is the way you want to be.

Order is when the way you are; is the way you want to be.

I would like you all of you to meditate on this, is the way you are – the way you want to be?

Meditate. Is the way you are…. the way you want to be? If it is not, then you are in disorder.

When you are the way you want to be, you are in order. This order is Mastery, a movement within this order, is meditation.

Are you the way you are is how you want to be? When you are the way you want to be, you have order. If you deny ‘you’ there is no order, if you escape ‘you’ there is no order.

Now meditate and find out what is preventing you from being the way you want to be.

It will be the lack of mastery. It will be because of forgetfulness, unawareness.

Are you the way you want to be?

Or have you decided the way you want to be cannot be achieved?

People who create frustration, they’re grumbling about everything, everything is ugly for them, they are the people who are convinced that they cannot be the way they want to be. They themselves can’t see it. They don’t have the order, the discipline, to attain to it. In order to escape it, they grumble about it.

When you are exactly how you want to be, and you are being that, there is massive order; tremendous joy, strength, mastery, direction, clarity, capacity.

What is preventing you from being the way you want to be, what is? Some belief, some conviction, some anger, some entrapment…watch.

It can be that you want to be successful, but you don’t because your mother may get happy and you don’t want your mother to be happy. One part of you wants to be successful, it needs to, “But I don’t want to give my mother that satisfaction.”

There is some power play, power struggle. When somebody works for you and he doesn’t want to do his job, or complete his job, he actually wants to betray your goal.

Not that he can’t do the job, he has other vested interests. Because his failure will cause you to fail, isn’t it? And he wants you to submit, for that he will destroy his own success, do you know that? It’s a game.

My suspicion why children don’t do well in school…. many factors, one of the factors is that they don’t want to give the satisfaction to the mother, to the father. Because their parents told them to do well, it’s a power struggle.

I work with many people, some times I can see. He just doesn’t do it because he wants somebody to be powerless. The moment you give him power he will attempt but such a person is ugly. You have to find out.

Why aren’t you the way you really want to be?

When you are that which you really want to be, you have come home. You are centred, meditative, silent.

This should be the meditation.

Because for you to be the way you want to be, it’s moving to a new reality. And the old reality has got a groove and that groove still pulls you towards it. Sometimes you are incapable of being detached or having Mastery over it, you go with it.

You want to wake up in the morning. When you wake up, you are the way you want to be isn’t it? But in the morning the old habit of sleeping late kicks in, it destroys your order, isn’t it?

Now this is another turmoil you must look into. Your failure is your own personal betrayal because you wanted success.

If you fail, you are betraying you. Find out the game you are playing. If not, that failure is unnecessary.

When a brain receives the impact that you cannot be the way you want to be, it becomes very destructive. Then one’s whole life is a grumbling, it’s not enthusiastic, it is not positive commitment. There will be no positive commitment in life. This person will grumble because deep inside he feels that he cannot be the way he wants to be. It cannot happen, he doesn’t have the power.

That is the disintegration of the brain. Then this person becomes very, very negative, destructive.

The first strength you must get, the first clarity, “I can be the way I want to be. I have the strength; I have to work at it.”

Mastery, the Mastery Training, the Four Disciplines is the path to move towards it.

Do you have the strength to work to be the way you want to be? Or have you given up? Now one part of you hankers to be that, the other part has given up hope on it, there’s a struggle. Then you live in perpetual chaos, darkness, unsettledness.

When somebody decides they cannot be loved, but they want to be loved, they are going to be very problematic. Because they want to be loved, but believe they cannot be. There is no order, all kinds of things will come out of it.

Your Mastery Meditation should be to check on it. “Am I the way I want to be and what are the elements preventing me? Why aren’t I moving towards it? What are the elements stopping me from understanding?”

Many times the reason can be denied. It’s easy to deny something, to lie about, non-acceptance. The attempt not to see facts, because of some pre-decided fear or nonsense.

The person who believes he can work, who moves towards being what he wants to be, will be very positive. He will have positive energy around him, I call it creation. A very creative energy around him. He’s always the morning sun, not the moonless night. He is always cheery because he is moving. He has a fresh outlook towards his life. That energy is constantly moving forward. Life becomes better every day, deeper, more intense.

Self lie can destroy you. When you lie to yourself, about that which you are, you pretend you’re already that which you want to be….. that lie erodes you completely. If before being that which you want to be, that you lie you are already that, you are already finished.

Pretending to be a good man before coming to it, destroys any possibility. And that lie will erode your brain, you will have no reason. The most dangerous lie is self lie, when you lie to yourself.

If you can constantly remember where you are, where you want to be, and you can remember, I am that which I want to be, there is tremendous joy, celebration, order. Then the energy to work emerges. Then life becomes very meaningful, tremendously meaningful. Then everyday, every moment, is precious.

Pretending arrival is very dangerous. Believing you cannot arrive is dangerous. Denying the whole thing is dangerous. Now, accepting the fact where you are is sanity, is the beginning. And to become very clear where you want to be, how you want to be.

I know you will ask me this question, Master, how to know where I want to be?

Stop lying. You have lied to yourself that’s why you don’t know.

A hungry man should know he wants food.

When you ask, I don’t know Master where I want to go?

Then you have lied. You have lied to yourself. Where you are is where you want to be. Some game has been played.

If not, you are crystal clear. You’re sharp as an arrow. You develop tunnel vision, you’re very clear, you move.

Where are you? Where are you going?

Are you the way you want to be?

Right now, is the body the way you want it to be? I’m not talking about health, is the body your slave or are you its slave?

Many times you’ll be exposed to many negative people who will want to destroy you. They will say, “Cannot…. no.” They kill your possibility. The day they kill that, you are finished. Then you think there is no hope and you’re in a state you don’t want to be. And the state you want to be, they made it impossible. You collapsed. There is suicide.

The greatest liberation you can come to is when you can say, “Yes, there is a way for me to be the way I want to be. I know the art, the path, the work that is required, I can arrive there.”

Then tremendous energy begins to flow within you and that energy is not yours, it is existence, it is cosmic, universal. It flows through you to perfect that within you.

The diamond didn’t become a diamond on its own. The universe played a role in it, it participated in it.

This openness to this flow happens when you see the fact, “Are you the way you want to be?”

If not, stay with that fact. Almost everything else happens naturally. If you learn the art to love, to give freely, the whole universe partakes in you. You will always be where you want to be. Meditate, make this your Mastery Meditation, “Are you the way you want to be?”

The worst thing that is taken away from you is your hope of ever being what you can be. That hope they take that hope away from you.

A Master is a blessing, you know why? He believes you can be enlightened. He banks, he banks on you everyday. He builds your hope, your strength, your direction, your commitment to move. He believes you can be.

Sinners are the people who take away your belief; who destroy your possibility. My work here is to make you have the strength, the belief, the ability, the clarity, the stamina to be that which you want to be. Not that which I want you to be. That which you want to be, because I know, finally after all conquests you will want to be a Master. And I support, I stand with you. Not as your superior, just somebody more experienced.

Now meditate, has that been killed in you? Have you started believing you can never be the way you want to be? Has that been robbed of you? Have you reached a point of hopelessness? Suicide, death…or are you going to rebel?

Watch your commitment. If you see it, there is commitment right now. Again I remind you the work here is very simple, my work is very simple for those who choose to participate with me. My work is to give you the strength, the clarity, the ability, the stamina… the sensibility to attain to that which you really want to be. That which you really want to be, to attain to your order.

Now for a few minutes meditate. Is it intact or broken? Look into this, pay attention. Try.


Master Dhyan Vimal is successful leader, businessman, teacher, author, husband and father. As well as these worldly qualities, he has a depth that surpasses normal understanding. Thousands have discovered that time spent with him or just encountering any of his teachings, have started a chain reaction that leads to transformation. Master Dhyan Vimal will refer to this as ‘Your life becoming right…’

Master Dhyan Vimal has created the School of Mastery within which he has created a simple system called “The Sacred Work”.

What is the SACRED WORK?

The Sacred Work is simply an action undertaking a challenge to rise to oneself to the best one can be. Realizing and recognizing the best in oneself is the only way the world can heal. It is not only a journey to live a fulfilled life, but also to be a conduit to fulfill existence and fulfill what one can be.

There are four stages to the learning. These are the Four Disciplines. Master Dhyan Vimal came to these through years of studying the wisdom of the East and also by back-tracking his own personal journey to enlightenment.

For more information on his groundbreaking four disciples or his amazing ‘Friends to Mankind’ organization, please go to:

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I love you! – By Joseph Ghabi
Posted by on 05 September, 2005

The famous three words we never hear enough of in our life. Throughout our life span we keep looking, waiting and hoping for something to take us, or lead us, to our true love. Have you ever wondered where we can find love?

I love you! – By Joseph Ghabi

The famous three words we never hear enough of in our life. Throughout our life span we keep looking, waiting and hoping for something to take us, or lead us, to our true love. Have you ever wondered where we can find love?

What really is this word “Love” that we keep repeating to that someone special in our lives? How many times do you tell your partner “I love you”? Do you really mean it, or do you just like to hear yourself speak? Or, is it just being said because it is part of the vocabulary that your partner likes to hear, or that helps make them feel secure about themselves. So what’s love in the first place? What does love mean to you? Where can we find it?

Before looking for answers, we need to establish things ourselves and understand the meaning of the word “LOVE”.

Love, in my point of view, is a flow of energy between two people that can bring awareness of their existence on this plane together, and this helps their relationship, and the harmony between them, to grow. If love is a flow of energy, basically it is not costing you anything so why do we hold ourselves back from truly sharing that love with someone else. Vulnerability, security, or maybe fears prevent us, but how hard are we really trying to achieve “true love”?

Love is already in your own backyard and we seem to have a hard time accepting this. To be able to accept love we need to learn how to give it in the first place. Love already exists in our “being” as humans share the most precious, intimate and secret jewel that is in our soul, our growth, and our spirit.

How much do you love yourself, or accept yourself for who you are? I am not introducing this question in an egoistic or selfish way. The amount of love you attract is really a reflection of the amount you give to others. We mirror what is already in us. You cannot get love from what you don’t have in yourself in the first place. The amount of time and effort you are willing to put into accepting, or inviting, true love to yourself is the same amount you are already accepting or giving to yourself? Are you ready to be in love? Ask yourself this question. Let go of your pride and fears, and invest in yourself. Think about it!

Do not allow one bad relationship to hold you back or stop you from investing in love again. Holding yourself back from loving someone is as equal to, or as important as, attracting love to your own life. We always look to receive love from another person but it is the contrary, you hold your happiness in your own hands. So open your heart and a new love will come and approach you. Don’t go too far to look for that true love. Just start searching for it within yourself!!! Sometimes it is hard to love ourselves because of different occurrences that have happened to us. We lose our own self-confidence and self-esteem. What I suggest, to renew your confidence in yourself, is a change of attitude. Appreciate yourself first, for who you are. Love yourself for who you are, and NOT for the way people want you to be, in their image. You are who you are, and if someone does not like you for what you are, then they are not the right one for you.

Now again comes the question - do you really mean it when you say to someone that you love him or her? Of course in my opinion, you need to distinguish between real love and infatuation. A person that showers his or her partner with material things or gifts usually has two motives. First, he or she is substituting one thing they can’t offer to their partner (love) and second he or she is hiding something from their partner (finding love somewhere else). Where am I going with this, just to say that love has no value attached to it? Either you give love from your soul or you don’t. Let’s just stop kidding ourselves by living a fancy unreal life. Love has no monetary value attached to it otherwise it would not be love. Love is a flow of energy so how can we place a price on it.

Until you find true love in your own heart, embrace every moment and enjoy your exploration of life and what it can bring to you.

Remember, love someone for who they are and not for the way you want them to be. Appreciate them as human souls. Happy discovery!!

Copyright © Joseph Ghabi

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